Matthew Kelly Quotes That Will Inspire You to Live Your Best Life
Matthew Kelly quotes that inspire a great attitude towards life That Will Inspire You to Live Your Best Life
1. Many people falsely believe that if you want to be holy, you are not allowed to enjoy life...Holiness brings us to life. It refines every human ability. Holiness doesn't dampen our emotions; it elevates them. Those who respond to God's call to holiness are the most joyful people in history. They have a richer, more abundant experience of life, and they love more deeply than most people can every imagine. They enjoy life, all of life.
Rediscover Catholicism
Author:- Matthew Kelly
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2. Superficiality is the curse of the modern world.
Rediscover Catholicism
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- wisdom,truth
3. The notion of freedom proclaimed by the modern world is anti-discipline. But true freedom cannot be separated from discipline.
Rediscover Catholicism
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- wisdom
4. We don't want to think about our weaknesses. We don't want to talk about them, and we certainly don't want anyone else to point them out. This is a classic sign of mediocrity, and this mediocrity has a firm grip on the Church and humanity at this moment in history.
Rediscover Catholicism
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- wisdom
5. Common interests are not enough to build a great relationship on. You may enjoy hiking together or traveling together, biking together or listening to live music together. You may share a love of movies, museums, art, animals, or any number of interests that can draw people together. But it is a mistake to think that these provide a solid foundation for a long-term relationship. In fact, common interests can very often turn out to be a false foundation, creating the illusion of a deeper relationship than was actually present.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
6. If you truly want to be intimate with the people you love, you need to know what drives them. In different stages of our lives we are driven by different things; that is why it is so important to make this an annual exercise with regular review throughout the year. If you asked your spouse what his or her dreams were when you first starting dating and you haven’t spent much time on the subject since, you will likely discover that he or she has a whole new set of dreams now. If this is the case, may I suggest you ask this question of your significant other as a starting point for the renewal in your relationship: Which of your dreams got lost along the way while I was too busy pursuing my own
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
7. In our relationships, we have to make the same choice: to build upon a foundation of virtue, or upon a foundation of selfishness. If we choose to base our relationships upon the foundation of a common goal to become the-best-version-of-ourselves, and understand that the best way to pursue this goal is by growing in virtue, then our relationship will likely be marked with joyfulness and contentedness. On the other hand if we choose to build our relationships on our unsteady and ever shifting whims, cravings, and self-centered desires, our relationship will more than likely be marked by an irritable, restless, and discontented spirit.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
8. Intimacy is a risk. It should not be taken lightly, but we must take it. No man or woman can live a full life without being known by at least one person. Intimacy is a prerequisite for all those who wish to live the abundant life. The only true reason to delay the adventurous and risky pursuit of real intimacy is the absence of a confidant freely chosen and worthy of our trust.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
9. Intimacy is mutual self-revelation. It is two people constantly discovering and rediscovering each other. It is an endless process because our personalities have an endless number of layers. Conversation, shared experiences, and simply spending time together peel back these layers and reveal new and different aspects of our personalities. Intimacy is also a constant rediscovering because our preferences change, our hopes and dreams change, and as a result so does the way we want to spend our days and weeks. Intimacy takes time.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
10. Intimacy is sharing the journey to become the-best-version-of-ourselves with another person. It is a mutual self-revelation that takes place gradually, cannot be rushed, and can only be realized by the commitment of time.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
11. Love is the wanting, and the having, and the choosing, and the becoming. Love is a desire to see the person we love be and become all he or she is capable of being and becoming. Love is a willingness to lay down our own personal plans, desires, and agenda for the good of the relationship. Love is delayed gratification, pleasure, and pain. Love is being able to live and thrive apart, but choosing to be together.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
12. Spiritual intimacy is the most rewarding form of intimacy and the hardest to achieve. Once you have tasted spiritual intimacy you will discover that physical, emotional, and intellectual intimacy, while breathtaking in their own right, do not belong in the same realm as spiritual intimacy. You will also discover that as you and your partner grow in spiritual intimacy, your experience of physical, emotional, and intellectual intimacy will also be heightened. At the core of the human person is the soul, and it yearns to be fed and nurtured.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
13. The same thing happens in relationships. When physical intimacy is established too quickly, we may think it is wonderful, but almost immediately it begins to stunt the growth of the relationship. We begin to overvalue physical intimacy, become preoccupied with it, and begin to judge and value our relationship on the basis of physical intimacy. As a result, we neglect the nurturing of the emotional, intellectual, and spiritual aspects of the relationship, and over time that neglect will create a distortion in its very character.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
14. What keeps people together in dynamic relationships? A common purpose. Why do people break up? Because they have no sense of common purpose; or they lose sight of their common purpose; or their common purpose becomes unimportant to them. So in order to create extraordinary relationships we have to develop a common understanding of a shared purpose. But before we can understand the purpose of our relationships, we must first understand our purpose as individuals.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
15. You may think you know just about everything there is to know about your partner, but you will be amazed at what you are missing out on if you open yourself up to taking another look. So, from time to time, it may help to approach each other as if for the first time. In this way you will experience the joy of rediscovery. Intimacy is not always about seeing new things. Sometimes it is about seeing what has always been before you, but in a different light or from a new perspective.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
16. You will never have a great relationship until you learn to truly appreciate the wonder of another person. And you will never experience the depths of intimacy until you grow to be thankful for the opportunity
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
17. Your essential purpose is to become the-best-version-of-yourself. Plant that one idea at the center of your life. Base every decision upon your essential purpose. Make every choice with your essential purpose in mind. Place this one idea at the center of your inner dialogue and you will very quickly understand why ideas change the world. Everything makes sense in relation to our essential purpose, especially relationships.
The Seven Levels of Intimacy: The Art of Loving and the Joy of Being Loved
Author:- Matthew Kelly
Category:- Relationships
