1. Holding each other accountable comes from a place of love. Judgement comes from a place of fear, disdain, or even hate. So be careful about dressing your judgments up as accountability to make your conscience feel better.
Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies about Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be
2. You're afraid that you suck. And - at least if you never try - no one (especially you) will be able to confirm that.Spoiler alert: This kind of thought doesn't come from an underachiever who's not good at anything.This kind of thought comes from a perfectionist. And truthfully? It's lame.There's so much incredible potential in you. But you're going to squander it because trying may or may not confirm that you're not as good as you thought you were.Stop being so hard on yourself!
Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals
